Comments on: Understanding What He Needs

By: Lovely

Lovely — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 18:45:08 +0000

I think at the start that should be not unusual that he loves a certain part of your body, as we all women and men have our own likes and dislikes. Also, maybe some people think feet are not a sexual object but some do and that is fine. What should matter now is that his fettish did turn into true feelings for you and sounds like it did since your married for two years.

So if it ain’t broke dont need to try fixing it. I would suggest open communication with your husband about how he feels and ayb you both can list how your love has deepened over time.

Plus, I learned as a fact_passion decreases over time. that will happen in any relationship, but you can spice it up, maybe by some toe rings:)

By: contrarian

contrarian — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 16:13:00 +0000

His fetish sounds harmless to me; but I am not one to decide on someones mental well being. I had a guy I dated that was into some unusual things. They scared me at first, then became exciting, and finally boring because that was all he wanted to do. I would say if it is only added to your lovemaking it’s a plus, if he uses it instead then – well a professional should comment on that.

By: Ms. Soulmate

Ms. Soulmate — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 16:03:43 +0000

Well PlaeseHelpMe, I think you explained it very well in your post. If you can’t explain it to him the same way why not suggest he read this “interesting” post on our blog. Maybe if he reads your feelings and full acceptance that will convince him of your commitment, and nonjudgmental love, for him whatever his “quirks”.

Thanks for your post and I hope this will help your situation.