Soulmate BLOG

Our nature is to be tempted when we look at a hot man/women from a distance. If you are a wise person you should think twice before getting tempted. Actually, think more than twice before jumping into such relationships.

Dating a person who is extremely attractive and for whom you can’t control your desires may mean an end of your reputation and social standing. So try to avoid such people and don’t forget that these attractions are fleeting, and usually will fade away soon. Pointing out the people you shouldn’t date does not mean that they are not good people, but it means that dating them is not a good idea. Basically, good people don’t always make good dating material for a particular individual.

Your ex tops the list of those you shouldn’t date. At times, they may look very interesting and hot to you but don’t forget why you really did break-up. They, or you, may have a deep rooted grudge against each other for which scores may need to be settled. So, as you start your relationship once again one of you may find an opportunity for this and as they say “pay back are a bitch”.

A co-worker may be your best colleague, and look like a model, but they not a good choice to date and have a relationship. Beware of the flings with your secretary as it will not only distract your mind from work at office but may also put your career at stake. Don’t forget about the movies in which you have seen secretaries blackmailing their bosses and enjoying leverage over them due to their affair. It is good to enjoy your leverage over them as a boss and praise good work, but not their looks. You may also be in for a sexual harassment suit when the love bells are no longer sounding in both your heads. This works both ways – women executives should be wary of dating anyone within the organization – the ramifications may be far-reaching.

If you are single without a boy/girlfriend you could be looking upon your friend’s significant other and dream of your secret relations with them especially if one day you come to know that are no longer seeing each other. You may find opportunity knocking and take the leap. But beware; they are amongst the worst people to start dating. You’ll most likely risk your relationship with your friend who probably won’t like that you are hooking up with his/her ex, no matter how long they have been broken up, and you never want to be in the position to take sides it that situation.

You generally share a good relation with your best friend’s siblings but don’t ever think of dating him/her. Your friend may not like this at all and as soon as they learn about it you may be kicked out of their home and heart. Your best friend may become your worst enemy once they know that the dating troubles you discuss relate to their brother/sister.

My personal “no date” candidate is what I like to call “HM” – His/Her Majesty – aka “High Maintenance.  Nothing will please them on a day-to-day basis. You may be in good standing today and then tomorrow your crap. You’re only as good as the last present given, or super meal prepared. This however is a subject for a whole other article.